My friend Jessica recently asked me
what I thought was the hardest thing about being a stay-at-home parent. I
thought about it a little and finally decided it was the fact that in this job
(and let's be serious, it is a job), you don't get any sick days. When you stay
home with your kids, if you get sick, you are stuck more or less "at
work" unless your partner can stay home to take care of the kids, and even
then you are still in the same house as the kids and aren't really able to get
peace and quiet (or, in my case, away from the guilt of abandoning Kurt with
Liam).
Lucky for me, Liam is an incredibly empathetic kid and doesn't mind if I put
Tangled on and then spend the entire movie sprawled on the couch. To him, it's
time to climb on top of me and watch a movie. He usually stays pretty quiet and
will sometimes come over and give me a little pat or a hug or even rub Eggy's
ear on my cheek (something he does to himself for comfort when he is hurt or
sick or sleepy).
Also luckily for me, I have found two amazing medicines that make me feel, if
not all the way better, than at least well enough to not completely bail on my
son on a sick day when Kurt has to work. Luckily for you, I am going to share
the secrets!